Today I went to the hospital to photograph a full term baby that passed away last Friday. I get called into the hospital to do this about 7 to 8 times a year. It is tough because the best thing … Continue reading
That I am allowed to feel hurt. Used. Maybe manipulated the entire time.
And somewhere between sitting down and crying into my hands, I came to a conclusion.
I can’t get over the fact that I fell so deep for someone. I simply can’t come to terms with the difference in feelings we had for each other.
I can’t believe i am still hurting. For gods sake…
Why can’t I sleep anymore.
Sometimes i like to just sit and breathe…
Other times I like to just sit.
After everything came to an end, breathing had become a foreign concept to me. The air wasnt tempting me anymore as it had done in the past. And manipulation now has a new meaning in its entirety.
My body had become an object and my love had become invisible to this man who looked at me as if I was the worst thing that had ever happened to him.
I hold myself at night, curled up in a ball..and cry silent sobs..why..why this..and why that…and why would I ever have sex with someone who doesnt love me…why didnt he kiss me….why didnt he talk to me…why didnt i see?
Other times i try to scream at my old self in my old memories ‘Wake up!!!’.. ‘Wake up!!’
And i dont, because i am trapped in that beautiful moment. When we were driving and you grabbed my hand and smiled at me.
You smiled….at me…
Did i mean something to you then? Could you have maybe..just maybe been in love with me at that moment?
I am not sure… and i will never know. But i hope one day you can look back at that moment and enjoy it once again…
photo credit. Alexander Z.